On.Love

Love

Some say love is the most beautiful thing that can happen to a person, that nomatter what flaws or disadvantages you have there is a perfect person out there just waiting to sweep you of your feet. Others disagree and feel love is merely a figiment of our imagintions, something there to make us feel alive, to make us feel good about ourselves, something to fall back on if all else fails. 

I myself am caught in the middle, theres a part of me that thinks, 'screw love' real life is'nt like the movies and nomatter how hard we try we will never be perfect for anyone. Some people spend years looking for that one person, and somehow they never arrive others have the fortune of never having to look because its right in front of them. I dont know a part of me thinks, love dosent exsist we make ourselves believe in this feeling so that we have drive and excitement in our lives. We build ourselves up for something beautiful and amazing but get thrown down by the act of selfeshness, or betrayel. I think, those who are scared to love, I myself included are fools, who are afraid to let love in because they are just as afraid of it running away.

However

Theres this whole other feeling i have which is maybe love is as amazing as it sounds, and maybe it does'nt have to be exactly how we see it in the movies, but something different something more special. Because as Sam Keen quoted "You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly." Maybe love isnt about trying to be perfect in every way but loving someone for their imperfectness. Its making the bad stuff count for more than just misery. I think we all aprreciate love so much because in this life its the closest thing we have to magic. The only thing that can make sparks fly without the help of electricity but the powerful connection of two people in love. It dosent always work but thats the whole point in life you realise not everything is great, but you make it as great as it can be.

To me love is not about walks in the park and romantic picnics with roses and chocolates its more than that.

Its so much more.

This is a pretty controvesial post as im not sure what i believe in, i have an attidude of never wanting to be tied down im a free spirit and i want to travel the world and expirience life and not only exsist with one person, however im going to say i sway more to the ''Love exsists'' as like any young, teenage girl i hope to one day find a handsome prince.

SiSi Milano xo